service

9.23.2015

12/17/2015
I am posting this in a random place on my blog because I don't want it to be public for all to see but I just wanted to reflect on how powerful and uplifting service can be. We have had the opportunity to serve so much in our ward here in Midwood. I decided to write down a few experiences that I wanted to share. There is a lady in our ward, Monita, who has terminal cancer. They only give her a few weeks to live. Our ward had really come together in helping her and her 9 month old daughter. She came here a few months ago from Haiti because doctors said it would be best if she got the treatment and care in the United States. So she left her children and husband in Haiti and brought her youngest daughter with her here to New York. I have been able to take food over to her numerous times and visit with her a bit. She is such a strong and courageous woman. She doesn't speak a lot of English so our visits are short, but so powerful to me. The last time I was there, I dropped off the food and she was laying in bed, sweating with the fan on. I asked her how she was and she said, "With my Father, all is well". It instantly brought tears to me eyes. Such a great example that with our Heavenly Father all IS well.
Spencer helps out at the Bishop's Storehouse a lot as well. He goes and picks up peoples food orders and delivers the bags of groceries to their house. He is able to help out a lot and meet some amazing people that way.
There is a girl in our ward who just had a baby and gave it up for adoption. I was able to comfort and console her through this, bring her dinner and invite her to our home for dinner. She is such a talented girl and it has been such a privilege getting to know her.
Just last night, Spencer and I got a babysitter and had a date night. It wasn't our regular date night, but a service date. That day I had made 5 loaves of bread, went to Costco and bought a 4 hams and a few bags of oranges and we made a list of people we wanted to deliver them to. We left around 7pm and got home at 10:30pm from our deliveries. We went to about 10 different homes and just visited with people. It was so refreshing and felt so good to serve. One man that we brought some bread to kept saying, "I'm so glad you came". Another lady who we love said that she had just been at the store with her son and he wanted some oranges. They didn't have a lot of money so she just bought him a couple and then went over to check the prices on a ham. When she got home her other son (who we delivered the ham and oranges to) said that Spencer and Madison had just showed up with the exact two things they were wanting to get at the store! Another lady who we gave money to for a new bike since hers had just broke (and she delivers pizza on her bike for a living) was so appreciative and thankful for the money. We had a really good night full of laughs (Spencer went way too fast over a speed bump and I swear our car got some air) and some good conversation with others.
I love our ward so much and the unique and diverse people it brings. It's so nice to feel needed and that we are making a difference!

End of summer

9.15.2015

We are so sad to see summer come to an end, but are loving this crisp fall weather! Time for my favorite season and all things cozy! I love when I can finally crack out the long sleeve shirts and sweaters and not sweat all.day.long from this crazy heat. We had such a fun summer traveling and being here in NY. We got to check a few things off our summer bucket list and try to get out each Saturday and explore the city. It always involves food and trying new places to eat, which we both love! Here are some pictures from my phone recently.. 
 We went on a walk one day and ended up at out favorite smoothie place and got a yummy muffin too! Love this girl! 

I LOVE this age of Bergen! She is smiling, cooing, engaging and loving life. She is super chill and usually only cries when she is hungry or tired. She has been going down for naps easier and is doing really well at night! 
I was making dinner and turned around and saw Charley reading Bergen a book! It is so cute how much Charley loves Bergen and wants to hold her daily. She is constantly giving her a binki or blanket or a toy to play with. I can't wait when they are older and can really interact! 
 We made it to Coney Island and had a fun beach day! The older Charley gets, the less strict we have to be with her naps so it's fun to stay out longer than usual and let her play. This girl has no fear and loves playing in the water and in the waves! We have to watch her carefully since she doesn't really understand her boundaries yet. 
 Spencer and I were able to get away on a date night to celebrate my birthday. We went to Little Italy and had the most amazing shrimp fehttuchini alfredo! Afterwards we got some cannolis and walked around Little Italy for a bit. 
 Our washer and dryer were broke for a few weeks so we had to get our laundry done at a laundry mat. It was actually pretty amazing. I just dropped off our laundry in a garbage sack and returned the next day to pick it up already washed and folded! I secretly hoped the fix-it man would never come by to fix ours since it was so nice to have my laundry folded for me! 
 We went to Jacob Riis beach one day and loved it too! It has huge waves that Charley actually loved playing in! There was less people than Coney Island since it a bit harder to get to which was nice. 
 Football has started and Spencer has a new football watching buddy! Bergen was really into this game. 
The rest of our summer was filled with playgrounds, water slip-n-slides with friends, the park, museums and library time. I love being so close to everything and being able to walk to our favorite places. We get out everyday and explore something new and we love it!